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Swinger; there are many definitions, from the dictionary version to individual interpretations.
The dictionary explains a swinger as a person who engages freely in promiscuous sex or a member of a couple, especially a married couple, who exchanges sexual partners.
Then many other people say we must be friends first, we must have chemistry, we must click, you must be perfect, no flaws, too fat, too thin, no kissing....blah blah...when the fact of the matter is, swinging in this day and age is just sex whether it be oral or full blown intercourse. Then there are the swingers sites, clubs, and resorts. Where people want to engage in sex with one, two or even groups of people.
The hardest part for swingers is to make the right connection. There will always be the “person who engages in freely promiscuous sex”, with no limitation or obligation married or not. Then there are others who put their restrictions to get the perfect match. Places like match.com and other dating sites and meeting places, there will be people who are not looking for just sex. Others are also looking for a soul mate… a friend…just someone to fit into their lives....then sex :)
In “normal life”, when you hook up with your partner to be, there are sacrifices that need to be made to accommodate the other person for the rest of your life or time together. Well, swinging falls under the same rules with additions. Instead of the assumption of long term relationship, the relationship could be set for 1 min to a lifetime of sex. This is why many call swinging the lifestyle, since it has become a way of living, not just one period of sex.
Let’s look at some of the common reasons you might want to be in the swinger lifestyle.
You want to become a swinger.
You want to add some spice to your relationship.
You want to feel sexy or like a stud.
Whatever your reason, you’re here. The next questions to ask yourself;
How do I get started?
Who do I trust?
Should I use a website, club or resort, which is the best?
Where do I meet?
How do I act when I do meet someone?
So then your questions are not answered but your eager to get out there and meet folks. Your excited to try something new, so you go out to the swinger lifestyle clubs, with blinders on to meet some new people, get drunk and have fun...now you’re an official swinger. In some case this is how it happens. As a single person this may work just fine. In a relationship, if it does, then what usually happens is you and your partner talk about things as they happen and if you both are reasonable people, then problems are solved instantly. Otherwise trouble begins which can lead to jealousy and disrespect may occur.
The most popular questions is how do you find a perfect match and get exactly what your looking for with no games with real people. When you find someone the best way to remedy this is to think about your turn offs and what attracts you about those people, then way the options. The same way you would if you were single (if your already are reading this :) If you come up with a number lower than 90% sureness leave them alone and move along. There are many people, like you out there. Point being for us here at www.swingerology.com is you should be able to swing with people you like and can get along with even though it might be a one time thing.
At swingerology.com we intend to provide you with a community and information to get you started in the swinger lifestyle, click here to common swinger terms . We have our way of doing things, but you let us know what we can do, i.e. put on the site to help filter fakers and have the best online experience.
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