We are an engaged couple that have been together for 3 years and have known each other for 6 years. Our wedding is not til March 2008. We are living together and have been since almost as long as we've been together. This lifestyle started with us at the beginning of this year so we're a bit new to it. He's a drummer for a rock band, very musically inclined cause he sings also and plays a bit of piano. She sings although has not done it too much since high school. We are a very outgoing, joking couple so if you don't like fun, then you're not for us.Although we are not new to some things, we haven't completely swapped with other couples. That is something we are interested in but we would want to be very comfortable with you before we do that. We've hung out with many couples and have done girl-on-girl while the guys watch, but have not really felt comfortable with the swap with some of them. We want people that are outgoing like us, know how to loosen up a bit cause "she" is a bit shy as well and would like somebody to break her down. She loves to experience sexually with women but is shy to start it. Once it has begun though, that is a different story.