We are a happily married, classy, intelligent, far from perfect, but certainly not unattractive, disease free, fun to be around couple. We had twin boys in December of 2007, so as you can imagine, spur of the moment meetings probably won't be possible. I (the husband) am a redhead,(strike one) with what she says are beautiful blue eyes and a razor sharp wit. I have a large frame,(strike 2) but I do carry it well, at least my wife and people we know think so, but I do have a buddha belly, so if you're hot on washboard abs....we're probably not for you. She's a hottie, plain and simple. Ask anyone who knows her, it's true, both inside and out. She is Bi, but it's not a dealbreaker either way, she's more the type to be into it if the other female is, and she's attracted to said female, but as I stated, it's not mandatory. She has medium length brown hair, and brown eyes. And a great butt. She is the yin to my yang. We're both huge music fans and we love pro football, although our interests aren't limited to just those things in that we have an interest in anything that could be considered art, be it movies, music, books, art galleries...the whole enchilada. We also ALWAYS play safe, if it gets to that point. On the topic of personal hygiene, IT'S IMPORTANT! Shaving, waxing, or at least trimming your "undercarriage" is also a definite plus (Us? Well she's usually shaved, sometimes with a patch, sometimes not, and I trim mine pretty short) We have face pics, but they are private, if you'd like to see them open yours and let us know you're interested. We do try to at least respond to every e-mail. If it takes a bit...let me apologize in advance. I try to respond to each letter individually. I don't have a patented "we're not interested"or a "hell yeah, you seem cool" answer. I try to take the time to explain what our take on possibly meeting might be. We've been in the lifestyle quite a while now, and we've figured out what we're looking for in people. I'm not going to go into detail here, but if you read the profile you'll know what they are. He's very 420 friendly, (If you don't know what that is, look it up) and would love to find others that are as well, but he's not trying to influence anyone. Might I also mention that if you have a confederate flag in any of your pics, we're probably also not a good match for each other.We're looking for compatible local couples, in our age range, with similar intellect, and ideologies about life. Not looking for one night stands, and while not shallow or superficial, we are picky based on what we're looking for in people because obviously, there has to be an attraction between us, even for just a friendship. To us, intelligence, cleanliness, passion, honesty, and a sense of humor count for a lot. He likes a pretty face, your size is secondary, but he has to find you attractive (in some ways he's pickier than she.) But rest assured, even if you look like Carmen Electra, if you have no personality, he's not going to be interested. She prefers larger(husky)build men with average sized units in that there is a "too big" for her. We're also looking for the comfort level a friendship affords, which to us means having similar tastes in music, art, movies, books, and FUN in general. If we can connect on some of these other things, that greatly ups the chance "play" will occur. We understand it happens, and good for the people that can do it, but we can't imagine playing with people we wouldn't like in the "vanilla world". ABSOLUTELY NO SINGLE MALES.