Waiting for Judge to rule on final of divorce. I own my place in the country, raise animals & have 13 year old Son on weekends so discretion is a must. I'm retired & in the proces of rejuvenating the place to make it visitor friendly. I live in Northern California, about 50 miles East of San Francisco, and travel to Thailand and South Dakota when possible. I enjoy raising animals & plants, am a NRA certified pistol & rifle instructor& we can target shoot small calibers on the place. I can hold my own about most things but am on the quite side until knowing someone. I greatly enjoy giving Ladies oral & listening to the different sounds of climax. My recieving oral is ok & feels good but seldom climax this way. Lady on top is my preference. I worked in different countries from 1998 through 2000 & had the pleasure of learning many different ways of pleasing a Lady. I will not accept being dominated nor forms of humiliation being done to me. I would like to find a compatable Lady to be 'friends with benifits' with & perhaps working into more; also couples for 'in & outside' the lifestyle.Looking for couples/Lady who would like to get to know me first, become friends and once all are comfortable become more then traditional friends. This could take two cups of coffee or a few months. As always, Ladies choice. For local meetings prefer to meet at a restaurant for coffee/lunch but would go to your house if preferred. For those vacationing/traveling to Northern Calif., an RV/trailer can be parked on the place.